Monday, June 29, 2009
Hi to new people to my blog and old friends
I everyone. I have made a bran new blog with no connections to my other one. For those of you who didn't follow me before my blog is http://timsue511.blogspot.com/ . I have since decided to keep that blog only talk about stuff I was okay about everyone hearing. For those of you that are new to my blog I had the blog I have pasted and I discussed my journey to adoption. Some of the stuff I would talk about related to my life and the lives of others in my life with no names. Well all the people I know do not have blogs or and where not going through the same thing I was going through. So one of my friends got a hold of my blog website because I made these adoption fliers that I had put up in the colleges in case there was someone who was pregnant and thinking to adopt they could know more about me on my blog. Well one of my friends came with me to put them out. She asked if she could take 2 for her sister to put up at her college. Well what I didn't know is that friend typed in my blog which was fine but then put it on her face book page. That in turn had everyone knowing my business when I was not intending to share my blog with anyone other then bloggers who want to know what we or others in the same circumstance are going through. The blog was not to open to everyone in my life that I see on a day to day basis knowing my frustrations or triumphs unless I decided to share that with them. I just wanted to discuss this stuff with people who are going through it or who are interested in what is going on that don't know us on a day to day. I absolutely could have made this private and invited people but I wanted someone like my self who is looking for others that are going through stuff that I can relate to see there blog without am invitation is why I had made a totally different blog with no relation to the old and I kept my old blog for those in my life that were being nosey and wanted to see my blog they wouldn't try looking for my new blog if I already had an existing one. I hope for those who have followed would still continue being my friend and my new blog. I will keep the old but not talk about everything on that one like I will talk about on this one. I want to keep this one under wraps so if they are not blogers they can't find me here and for the picture that comes up when you follow people I am just going to put animals there so they do not recognize me if I have added this to your blog from my existing one. I know this is a mess and confusing but it won't be anymore and I just wanted to clear that up especially for my old blogging friends that have followed. At this moment we are still waiting for that day that we get a call that we are going to be parents. Until then I will try to keep you posted if I can weekly until then.
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I know exactly where you are coming from =)
ReplyDeleteI hope this can be a place for you to vent your feelings. I'm glad you are going to keep blogging, I want to know when you finally become parents!
ReplyDeleteThanks Savannah I definatly think this is more safer that no one would find me here so I can feel free to vent.
ReplyDeleteThanks for following me here Trica. I appreciate your interest and wanting to know more about me. :)
I know exactly what you mean when 'people get into your business.' First IF is so personal because it involves you and DH's private parts with the Doc. You just don't want anyone to know whats going on. Then when you decide to adopt you still don't want everyone and their dog to know. The problem with that is your baby WILL be coming out of someone else. I had to come to terms with that and the fact that most domestic adoptions happen because someone knows someone else. Or they see your card somewhere. The more advertising the better in the long run. It is just really uncomfortable at first because your still hurting from all the IF. It was like I was in shock at first. Over time it got better. I can give you several names of great books on adoption and IF if you want. Just drop me a line.
ReplyDeleteThank you. That would sound great about the books. I think the books could possible help everyone who is going through adoption. It is not easy and everyone does know we are adopting but I just don't want friends and family besides my mom and Tim's partents to know my every move in adoption. I guess it also stems back from when our friends didn't tell us they were pregnant and wouldn't tell us the babies names they picked out or they knew the sex of the baby and didn't want to share it with anyone because it was some big secrete. Well those are the people that were looking at my last blog and trying to see my every move. That would be fine if they would at least share some info with us but they are the type that want to know everything about you but won't share anything about themselves because it is a secret or a suprise so I figure why should they know everything about me I will one day have a child and walk up to them and they will be jsut as shocked. Maybe that seems childish but I am so frustrated with people treating me with kid gloves all the time. That is just how I feel. But appreciate yor support.
ReplyDeleteIm here! I dont blame you, there are a lot people in my life, I dont want reading my blog...so I can relate!
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