tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284510690150829663.post5665545021622046617..comments2023-04-30T01:32:35.679-07:00Comments on From the Stork: Not sure if I made the wrong desion yesterdayFrom the Stork; An adoption Journeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10038726242362316249noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284510690150829663.post-18970360394108813902010-02-18T08:25:27.803-08:002010-02-18T08:25:27.803-08:00Did you try that link I sent you yet?Did you try that link I sent you yet?obladi obladahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08369698071576277433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284510690150829663.post-83763271267358783262010-02-18T08:05:19.764-08:002010-02-18T08:05:19.764-08:00You did make the right decision. Babies do take s...You did make the right decision. Babies do take soooo much time and you are still building your bond with Justin. I agree with the previous comment in that now you can prepare for the next call. It does take time to prepare for an infant. That is why God made pregnancy 9 months. Now you can start preparing your home and heart for another child, knowing there WILL be another call. I know this is hard and the what ifs will drive you mad. Just know that if God intended that baby to be a part of your family He would have moved in your hubby's heart when he made that call and hubby would have said yes. Give it time with Justin. Continue to live it up with just him. He needs that one on one for a while longer. He needs you and with a newborn in the house that would not have been possible. You made the right decision. Don't beat yourself up about this for another minute.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18183426821328179143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284510690150829663.post-35604271745033453032010-02-18T07:43:22.695-08:002010-02-18T07:43:22.695-08:00Wow, you had an emotional day yesterday. Maybe thi...Wow, you had an emotional day yesterday. Maybe this phone call was simply meant to open your hearts to the possibility of another child. Its sad that you only have minutes to make a decision when those calls come, but now you have a chance to discuss it as a couple and with Justin for when the next phone call comes. There seems to be so much preparation to becoming parents. Not only do you have to prepare physically and financially, but you also have to prepare your family emotionally. Justin has been through a lot of changes recently so its probably okay that it is still just him for now. But now you can start preparing him to be an older brother so when it does happen it hopefully won't be such a shock. I have a feeling another call will come and you will be adding another child to your family someday.Savannahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17584445611402346917noreply@blogger.com