tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284510690150829663.post5589014150987664057..comments2023-04-30T01:32:35.679-07:00Comments on From the Stork: This is a life changing decisionFrom the Stork; An adoption Journeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10038726242362316249noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284510690150829663.post-71591084661839802222011-06-02T15:13:50.961-07:002011-06-02T15:13:50.961-07:00It is a hard decision. We adopted 4 kids in 09 so...It is a hard decision. We adopted 4 kids in 09 so our family is complete. I still wonder what it would be like to be preg. But it passes quickly. Everyone deals with infertility different. <br /> I had this done and I had no problems. I only had one spell of cramping and bleeding. I can not imagine what u have gone through. My lining was thick due to pcos. I also had biopsy first. I had the ablation done with a balloon that was heated to destroy uterine lining. Don't remember the medical terms. It worked good. Good luck making the decision.MJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07661309994995951274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284510690150829663.post-70636653341666846512011-06-02T15:07:34.009-07:002011-06-02T15:07:34.009-07:00If it were me and my cramps were unbearable, I wou...If it were me and my cramps were unbearable, I would do it. Well, some months my cramps ARE unbearable, but that is only a few times a year. When they are that bad, I just want to die, they hurt so BAD. But mine aren't endo related. <br />My bit of advise is something I want to pass on from a book I read several months back. The author had already decided she would never be able to be pregnant. And she was okay with that. But when she had her surgery and knew she could never have kids, she went through the grieving process all over again. <br /><br />I would suspect that is normal. I know I can't get pregnant. I KNOW I can't. But when I think of having surgery, I get all teary because even though I KNOW I can't, its just so final. I probably will have a hysterectomy someday, I'm just waiting for better timing in my life. <br /><br />If you do decide to do it, I would guarentee you'll go through the grieving process again. That doesn't mean you are supposed to back out, its just nature's way of having one final goodbye. <br /><br />Pray about it and seek inside your heart. If it feels right, then do it. Then just pray again as the grief comes that you will be able to handle the grief.Savannahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17584445611402346917noreply@blogger.com